Announcing Against Infidelity the Book!

August 1, 2012 By Leave a Comment

Hello my friends, relationship coach Justin Penn of Against Infidelity here.

By now, I’m sure you’ve read a lot of my posts on infidelity, signs of cheating, and emotional affairs.  And you’ve learned a lot about cheating, about your relationship, and about the fate of your love life.  But I’m sure you still have questions.

You see, infidelity and cheating is such a complex issue, it can be hard to make sense of it without an expert.  And that’s where I come in.  I’ve been studying infidelity my entire life, and I’ve amassed knowledge never seen before all in one place.  For instance, do you know that there are 24 Warning Signs of Trouble in ANY relationship?  Not 23… not 25… but 24 Warning Signs.  Do you know what they all are?

Navigating all the information out there can be a headache – especially if you are already dealing with the question of, “Are they cheating on me?” or something similar.  Even plain old suspicious behavior is enough to put your head in a tailspin.  Save yourself the trouble.  Find out for sure.

Announcing Against Infidelity the Book

In my critically acclaimed book, you’ll learn:

  • The 24 Warning Signs of Trouble in Any Relationship
  • The 6 Signals that Your Partner is considering Cheating on You
  • The 13 Sure-Fire Ways to Tell for Sure if Your Partner is Cheating on You
  • How to Confront a Cheating Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Husband, or Wife
  • EXACTLY What to do if your partner is cheating on you
  • How to rebuild trust, communication, and connection if your partner hasn’t been cheating on you
  • And much, much more, to get peace of mind, once and for all!

You owe it to yourself to know for sure if your partner is cheating on you.  If they aren’t – awesome!  I’ll show you tools to rebuild your relationship, your communication, and the spark you once you had.

If they are, in fact, cheating on you, AT LEAST now you know and you can do something about it.  I’ve covered all you options if this is the case, as well, laid out for you, all step by step.

Please, for yourself, check out the book today.  You’ll be glad you did.

Yours,

Justin Penn

Justin Penn is a relationship coach and author of the critically acclaimed Against Infidelity the Book.

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Against Infidelity – New Video on the 6 Signals Your Partner is Cheating on You

July 2, 2012 By 2 Comments

Hello everyone, Justin Penn here from Against Infidelity!  In this post I bring to you the first video in a series of free online videos about infidelity.  This video is on the 6 Signals that are given if your partner is considering cheating on you, or already is cheating on you.  Check this video out let me know just how much you like it.  I’m excited to try this new format!

Yours,

Justin Penn

 

For more information on infidelity, check out my new Against Infidelity the Book.  In the book I go over the six signals that your partner is considering cheating on you and how you can save your relationship before it’s too late.

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Against Infidelity – What is an Emotional Affair?

June 11, 2012 By Leave a Comment

Hello everyone and welcome to another article from Against Infidelity.  In this article, I’m going to be talking about the idea of the emotional affair.

The emotional affair is something that has picked up a lot of steam in the recent years in the news and in the press.  Why is this?

The simple reason for this is that today’s technology allows people to become connected easier and more discretely than ever.  With the internet, social media like face book, and everyone having their own cell phone, it’s easy to contact another person without anyone else ever knowing.  And it’s easier than ever to cheat.  But is an emotional affair considered cheating?  What is an emotional affair anyway?

According to most relationship experts, myself included, an emotional affair refers to intimate contact with a person of the opposite sex, outside of your relationship, that hasn’t yet become physically intimate.  Let’s break this down.

Intimate contact means emails, text messages, and photo shares that are of an explicit nature.  Heavy flirtation and nude photos (and even just requests for nude photos) count as intimate contact.  This can be extremely hurtful and damaging if it occurs in the middle of someone’s exclusive relationship with their partner.

Being outside of the relationship is key here.  Being outside of the relationship is the foundation for all forms of cheating.  Don’t ever forget that.

Lastly, a hallmark of an emotional affair is that it hasn’t become physical yet.  Some emotional affairs will never become physical, but many do.  Especially if the affair is with someone located geographically close to the cheater.  Many times one person will suggest a meetup, even for something “innocent” like coffee.  Those “innocent meetups” don’t stay innocent for very long.

I consider an emotional affair to be just as real as a physical affair, and yes, to be cheating.

There is nothing wrong with maintaining healthy relationships with other people of the opposite sex.  IN FACT, as a relationship coach, I believe healthy friendships ARE ESSENTIAL so that the primary relationship doesn’t become clingy or obsessive.  But in emotional affairs, we are talking about people going outside of the relationship, in an intimate way, to get stimulation and satisfaction that should be coming from the primary relationship.  And that is cheating.

Sexual text messages, flirtatious face book messages, and nude pictures go outside of any relationship that a person is in.  And that is cheating.  And often, that leads to things becoming hot and heavy outside of the relationship.

Yours,

Justin Penn

For more information on emotional affairs and infidelity, check out my new Against Infidelity the Book.  In the book I go over the six signals that your partner is considering cheating on you and how you can save your relationship before it’s too late.

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Against Infidelity – Signs of Cheating

June 8, 2012 By Leave a Comment

Welcome back to the Against Infidelity blog my friends.  In today’s blog, I’m going to look signs of cheating in a relationship.

You may be asking yourself, “Is my partner cheating on me?”  If you are, you are not alone.  It is estimated that over 60% of people in marriages are cheated on at some point in their relationship.

In order to know whether you are being cheated on or not in your relationship, you need to know how to look for the signs of cheating from your partner.  Nearly every cheater gives off signs that they are cheating, whether this information leaks out from guilt, from sloppiness, or from chance.  By knowing what to look for in the suspicious behavior of your partner, you can better determine if they are cheating or not.  Here are some nearly universal signs of cheating:

1)  They begin lying to you about where they’ve been and what they’ve been doing

Most normal, sane people begin their relationships in truth, being honest with their partner about the things they like to do and the places they like to hang out at.  Over time, in a relationship, you begin to notice the habits that your partner has and become accustomed to them.  You’ve experienced this in your own relationship, right?

But when the cheating begins, the cheater needs to cover their tracks.  And so they’ll start to lie about what they’ve been doing and who they’ve been hanging out with.  The lies will start out small and get larger, as the cheater gets more and more bold and gets away with cheating on you OVER and OVER again…

2)  They begin hiding things they never used to hid, like computer passwords, cell phones, etc

Most people in relationships are pretty trusting of themselves and the other person, and most things are left out in the open.  Things like their cell phone, their computer.  They don’t freak out if they’re left logged into face book, or if their cell phone is left unlocked.  When people start to cheat, these patterns change.  THEY HAVE TO, in order to keep the lie from you.  And the cheating has usually began WELL BEFORE they start to hide things from you.

3)  They don’t seem as passionate in the bedroom as they used to be, or as interested in sex

A common sign of trouble in a relationship in general is when the romanticism begins to die and the love making begins to fade away.  This is a warning sign in any relationship, but when dealing with a cheater, this is really brought up to the forefront.  Think about it – the reason they are less interested in having sex with you is because THEY ARE HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE.  I know this can be a painful thing to think about, but it could be happening to you.

These are only three signs of infidelity in a relationship.  There are 24 Warning signs of trouble in a relationship in total, much more than I have time to write about today.  I encourage you to check out Against Infidelity the Book for these warning signs and much, much more.

Yours,

Justin Penn

Justin Penn is an expert at relationships and at identifying infidelity.  He is the author of the critically-acclaimed Against Infidelity the Book.

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Against Infidelity – What is Infidelity?

June 4, 2012 By Leave a Comment

Welcome to Against Infidelity dot com, home of the against infidelity blog and book.  My name is Justin Penn, and I’m here to guide you through the turmoil you are facing with infidelity.  What is infidelity?  Is an emotional affair really cheating?  Where do we draw the line?  And what can we do if we suspect our spouse of cheating?  There are so many questions.  I know that there are so many questions, because I wrote a book about all of them!  But that’s not what this site is about.  This site is to better help you understand infidelity and what you can do about it.  In this series of free articles, I’m going to go over many aspects of infidelity that are on your mind now.

First off, what is infidelity?  The Merriam Webster dictionary defines infidelity as “an unfaithfulness to a moral obligation”.  This is a pretty good definition.  Let’s break it down further.

In the first part, we see the word “unfaithful”.  This is an important word.  It means that someone is going against good faith, they are re-negging on something they had stated before.

The second part of the definition refers to morality.  Morality is the study of what is right and wrong.  Although the idea of right and wrong is very subjective and has changed often throughout history, we can all agree that going back on a promise is just plain wrong.  That is what we see when people cheat.

The last part of the definition refers to an obligation or commitment.  Marriage, or even a regular relationship, means commitment.  It means commitment to one other person, in a relationship, through thick and thin.  This doesn’t change if the relationship is in trouble or in turmoil.  A comittment is something you can rely on.  A commitment is something you should be able to rely on.  When someone cheats, they break their commitment to the relationship, and they break their commitment to you.

Putting it all together, we see that infidelity refers to a series of immoral actions that break your faith and go against the commitment that you expect in your relationship.

Have you ever felt this way in your relationship?

I know many people in your shoes, who have experienced the same thing you are going though now.  That’s why I’m here to help.

Okay, now that we know what infidelity is, we are off to a good start.  In the next article, I’ll look at signs of cheating.  Until next time.

Yours,

Justin Penn

Justin Penn is a relationship and infidelity expert. You can find more about the system he uses to detect infidelity at  Against Infidelity the Book.

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